Social media burn out!!

No doubt this happens to all bloggers . . . burn out.

Not only is it blogging burn out, I just don't have the desire to be online this morning . . . PERIOD.

Because I have a restless type of personality, I bore very easily.  It could be the reason I enjoy maintaining multiple blogs.  On a normal day, I love everything that is involved with creating, maintaining and marketing my blog.  

However, this week the burn out phase has been creeping up on me, which is very unlike me when it comes to my online activities.

Tuesday night, as I pondered my Wordless Wednesday for the week, I decided to drop that activity from my routine.  Too much work for a little return, so I won't be hosting the linky anymore.  Maybe it is the burn out talking . . . I don't know.  The linky is no longer free, which helped my decision.

There is the possibility that spring fever has hit me and I secretly desire to spend more time doing stuff around the house and getting out in the awesome weather we are experiencing in Florida.

All I know is that this morning, I have gone from one task to another and have gone in a circle of going to the next thing before finishing, which is normal to do that with a few tasks, but not all of them.

It seems as though all of the social networks, I'm including Blogger, are going through "improvements" . . . which totally messes everything up before making it better.  It has become ponderous to give my blogs a facelift with all the recent problems on Blogger.  I was so motivated to redo all of my blogs and actually finished Subtropical Gardening, and almost finished this blog.  I hate the header on PLH and want to change it, but I hesitate because I don't want to encounter problems.  It ruins the fun.

The Captain and I are collaborating on a new blog and I was going to give his blog a facelift.  Now I don't want to bother with it because I will encounter those problems.  Facebook is a total mess as I started to set up my blog fan pages . . . lots of new followers with no easy way to keep track of them and follow back.  

Seems like they decided to randomly place messages on the wall, in no chronological order.  You can't make a post to the wall and have it be the first thing to show up on the page.   Twitter access has been intermittent and slow since they are rolling out the "new Twitter".  

Did they all get together and decide to make the total social marketing experience a drag?

It is human to go through burn out at some time or another, we all go through it.  As far as the social media / blogging experience, I am more than charred . . . it is more like total burn out.  I'm not going away since I need to keep my ad networks going, but the need to slow way down is necessary for me.

It all started when my I was recovering from my external hard drive failing, immediately followed by my hard drive completely going out and all the work associated with that activity that I have not completed.  Then the social networks went into "improving their sites" . . . 

Isn't a hobby supposed to be fun?  

I'm questioning the whole process . . .

Am I the only one feeling like this?

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The Transition Zone

“When we feel stuck, going nowhere . . . even
starting to slip backward . . . we may actually
be backing up to get a running start.”

Dan Millman

Changing from holding on to those old habits or circumstances in life can sometimes be difficult since they are comfortable. The transition zone is not in the comfort zone . . . it is the unknown.

Seems like life circumstances can put you in the comfort zone and out of the transition zone. Having to deal with a life and death situations throw me into the comfort zone, making it difficult to eat, sleep or just function normally . . . as if I have been momentarily paralyzed into the comfort zone.

I’m still dealing with the death of my spouse and several close friends and family within the span of a few years and really, I was thinking about how well I was dealing with grief, but now I don’t know what I am feeling . . . it is like everything has come back to haunt me.  It comes and goes . . . even though I have moved on with a new love and my life is happy.

The past couple of weeks have found me dealing with several health issues that have gotten me down with so much to do and not much energy to do it.  

Although I am feeling stuck, going nowhere . . . more like suspended in time . . . and yes, I feel as though I have slipped backward, but I am having faith that I am just backing up to get a running start.

Do you have times of teetering on the edge
of the transition zone and the comfort zone?

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Leaving Baggage Behind

A serious sensibility may come over you today, prompting periods of self-reflection. You may be overcome by an intense curiosity that compels you to delve into your past in order to determine how your personal history has influenced your life in the present.

As you contemplate what you consider to be the important episodes in your life, you may discover that emotions you imagined were no longer exerting influence over your life are still a part of your experience. In order to cleanse your karma and reestablish your soulful equilibrium, you may need to analyze the emotional baggage you are carrying and then discard it. You can achieve true closure today by recognizing those parts of your previous life experiences that add no value to your life in the present. 

As you clear the emotional baggage that has accumulated in your soul over time, you will gain an unimpeded and consequently optimistic view of your future. Each of us is gradually saddled with more and more of this type of baggage as we move through life and eventually it begins to weigh heavily on our spirits. Clearing emotional baggage frees you from the limitations and patterns of thought imposed upon you by circumstances from your past. As you discard this karmic waste, you will attain a state of mental clarity that allows you to see life’s wonders for the miracles they truly are and divest yourself of habits and behaviors that add no value to your experience. Your soul will be rejuvenated today as you release your emotional baggage.

 Source: Daily Om

Letting go of emotional baggage has been one of the most difficult areas in the healing process of my life. Grief, the associated guilt and the pain of past hurts that sweep over me when I least expect it sometimes knock me down. 

Through the years, my coping mechanisms have made it easier to pick myself back up, even though the waves of emotion sometimes make it difficult.

It is easy for someone not going through the emotion to simply say, "pack it up and put it away" . . . easier said than done although not totally impossible. The healing process of emotional baggage is a "one day at a time" kind of thing.

The key is to remember you are in control of the present, despite the past.

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Emotional Baggage

“Our feelings are our most genuine paths to knowledge.”

Audre Lorde

This is an updated older post
from another blog that I have closed.

Emotions and intuition speak to us and can be our greatest guide if we are willing to experience them. However, many of us instinctively block or resist these feelings . . . and they turn into the trap of emotional baggage, bringing perpetual discomfort, stress and anxiety.

On the other hand, jumping to conclusions, actions or reactions is not a good thing either. Allow them to speak to you, acknowledge and deal with them as they come . . . pay attention and be aware. Just deal with your emotions and don’t bottle them up to fester into emotional baggage that takes peace of mind and throws it out the window.

The lesson I have not learned is to think before I speak.  It is sometimes difficult to differentiate between genuine intuition and paranoia.  What I am learning is there are different perspectives to all situations and not everyone has the same reaction or emotion which should be considered before speaking.  It is that delicate balance of compromise and considering others as well as being true to yourself.

My greatest peace comes from analyzing my emotions, why I react to situations in a certain way and determine the way back to the comfort level of peace of mind.  

Take time to know yourself and your emotions . . . be rid of that emotional baggage that weighs you down.

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Imagination

"Imagination is more important than knowledge. 

Knowledge is limited."

Albert Einstein

Thoughts are the playground of the imagination, taking us through endless possibilities, exploring the known and the unknown drawing from the heart and soul, waking up our deepest desires.

The mindset of a child is fascinated with the world around them, open to discovering and experiencing new things. As we grow older, life educates us and in turn dulls our natural curiosity and some of us forget how to dream.

Part of the beauty of life is to exercise our imagination, believe in our dreams and go through our life journey with mindset of a child with a sense of wonder.

Imagination allows us to ask the question “why not?” . . .

Ok, I'm in a psychological mood today :)  

It is that unsettled feeling, kind of an anxious restlessness.  My hard drive crashed.  This has been a month of computer problems and related expenses that were not expected.  It totally weirds me out and puts me in a funky state of mind.  I'm lost without all my settings and everything where it should be.  Poor Captain, he gave up his computer for me . . . he's awesome.

In the midst of all things unsettled, I'm feeling grateful for many things.  I have a computer to use and since my external drive crashed a few weeks ago, I have a new one that was backed up.  Only a few files lost . . . although they were important . . . with a little time I can recreate them.

Imagination is a wonderful thing . . . it can take you to a place away from everything that is wrong . . . where life is wonderful if you look at it in the right frame of mind.  

I'm grateful to my sweetie who makes me realize this and is teaching me not to freak out over insignificant events of life.  They are minor irritations that make us grateful for the time when everything is as it should be.

It was not my imagination . . . an unidentified plant put out the most beautiful cluster of yellow flowers I've ever seen today.  Spring has arrived and that makes me so happy.  I'll be posting photos at my gardening blog.

Happy Wednesday!  
I am happy no matter what irritation has found me.

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Listening to Dreams

Your dreams or meditations may give you clues to the rest of your life, and you may feel extremely intuitive today. It could be your subconscious telling you what you need to attend to in your life and trying to point you in the right direction. You might find that by paying attention to the signals you are receiving, you find insights that can help you cope with any questions or issues that might be present in your life today. Perhaps keeping a dream or meditation journal can be a practical way to note the images, symbols, or words that are present in your dreams and meditations. The moment you wake up, try noting what stands out to you the most, going back to it later on. You may notice how the patterns or thoughts that present themselves pan out throughout the rest of the day and relate to the things that actually happen.

Dreams are keys to the parts of ourselves that connect with our spirit. When we dream, we not only process the thoughts, actions, and images we have each day, but we also let go of our rational analytic minds and enter into a deeper state, one that is more closely linked to our higher self.

Source: Daily Om

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The Melancholy of Letting Go

Whenever the Universe asks you to move on there is a sense of sadness that accompanies letting go.

Do not deny the sadness of moving on. Instead sit in it with a whole lot of love for yourself and the situation. No matter how much you may wish that life could be different accept that this is what's true for today.

There is a jewel within the melancholy of letting go. The jewel is the beginning of a new awareness within yourself and a new life. Each relationship, business venture, job and phase of our lives serve as platforms for us to grow.

Joy comes to those who are able to sit in the in between, the space between what was and what will be. Joy comes to those who do not run from their feelings but courageously embrace them in search of the new jewel of awareness.

Remember, for a new day to begin the darkness of night must fall. Each is a natural part of the cycle of life. Embrace the dark moments and remember that just before dawn is the darkest of night.

Just be with it - the dawn will break.

By Mastin Kipp

Source: The Daily Love

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