There are times my thoughts go to having one more day with the loved ones who have left my life. It never gets to the point of pondering the question "what would I say" and how would I feel in the end.
Would I go through grief of this person leaving my life again?
Would it bring up more regrets or questions?
One more hug would be awesome, but would it be enough?
Would it make me want more and more, making the grief intensified?
I didn't get to say goodbye to JR, my nana or nano. What would I have said? How do you say goodbye to someone who has been such a big part of your life?
Death and resulting grief has to be the most difficult thing to deal with in life. Everyone has a different way of dealing with it. I write and let my feelings out, it helps me. Some people hold it all inside, like in denial of any hurtful emotions.
The Grief Toolbox, the website, has really been helpful for me. The graphic comes from there and is just an example of how they post those articles, poems and so much more that make me think about something I had not thought about before.
