Showing posts with label suffering. Show all posts
Showing posts with label suffering. Show all posts

Wednesday, March 12, 2014

What Doesn't Kill You Makes You Stronger?

Suffering has been stronger than all other teaching, and has taught me to understand what your heart used to be. I have been bent and broken, but - I hope - into a better shape. --Charles Dickens WOW, that quote speaks volumes to me and reminds me of another quote . . . "What doesn't...
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Posted by Gina Alfani at 7:56 AM
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Sunday, November 3, 2013

Divine Discontent

What a great story on taking a  positive view of a bad situation! Some lessons are more expensive  than others . . . even if they  don't cost a penny A fellow came to my teacher Hilda Charlton and complained that he had been ripped off by an auto mechanic. "The guy charged...
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Posted by Gina Alfani at 5:17 PM
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Sunday, April 11, 2010

Desire is the cause of suffering?

The cause of suffering is desire. So taught the Buddha 2500 years ago. This was his second Noble Truth called samudaya, meaning arising. It is desire and associated feelings that arise within us as a response or reaction to our affliction, challenges or suffering. As long as we are alive we will...
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Posted by Gina Alfani at 5:38 AM
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Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Days with tears

"I am not what happened to me, I am what I choose to become." Carl Jung, was a Swiss psychiatrist and founder of Jungian psychology "Suffering is not holding you. You are holding suffering. When you become good at the art of letting sufferings go, then you'll come to realize how unnecessary...
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Posted by Gina Alfani at 7:05 PM
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