Monday, August 16, 2010

Peace . . . and revenge

Wanting to seek revenge against somebody hurts us as our energy is lowered to a lower form with these thoughts.There can be times when we get so angry with someone that we find ourselves imagining ways to seek revenge for the hurt they’ve caused us. Remember, however, that the thoughts you’ve...
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Posted by Gina Alfani at 3:05 PM
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Irreplaceable hours

Often we allow ourselves to be upset by small things we should despise and forget. We lose many irreplaceable hours brooding  over grievances that, in a year's time, will be  forgotten by us and by everybody. No, let us devote our life to worthwhile  actions...
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Posted by Gina Alfani at 5:43 AM
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Friday, August 13, 2010

A time for every purpose

To everything there is a season, a time for every purpose under the sun, a time to be born and a time to die, a time to plant and a time to pluck up that which is planted, a time to kill and a time to heal, a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and a time to dance, a time to...
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Posted by Gina Alfani at 2:43 PM
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Monday, August 9, 2010

Moving through Darkness

I'm living proof of moving through darkness described in this article! Often it takes something major to wake us up, to shake us loose from our ego’s grip as it struggles to maintain an illusion of control. In life, most of us want things to go to the places we have envisioned ourselves...
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Posted by Gina Alfani at 10:50 PM
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Sunday, August 8, 2010

Choices

"Life is as we have it. With will power, we can change its course. Life is a series of choices. The thoughts that we have any time are own choices. No one can enter into our mind and make us think in a particular way. Similarly, our feelings are our own choice. Whether a person is depressed or happy...
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Posted by Gina Alfani at 5:26 AM
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Monday, August 2, 2010

Relationship glue

Demonstrations of affection are the glue that keeps the bonds between individuals who care for one another strong.  Many people feel uncomfortable giving voice to their feelings or engaging in displays of warmth because they are afraid to risk appearing vulnerable or silly.  Yet...
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Posted by Gina Alfani at 7:45 PM
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Life's reflection

Our life is often a reflection of what lies within. When we feel stressed by something outside of us, our reactions are usually a mirror of what is happening in our minds. It is no different with our relationships— whatever we do, say, or even think is a reaction based on our own inner dialogue. Integrating...
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