Sunday, May 29, 2016

Deep Well of Confidence

Today's horoscope says that I could experience a sense of satisfaction by being acknowledged and appreciated by others today. My question is this . . . can't the same sense of satisfaction be achieved by having a well of confidence in yourself and knowing when a job is well done? ...
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Saturday, May 7, 2016

Grief: How We Survive

I could have written this poem . . .  it perfectly describes how we survive grief. Mark Rickerby wrote this poem following the death of his brother: If we are fortunate, we are given a warning. If not, there is only the sudden horror, the wrench of being torn apart; of being...
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Saturday, April 16, 2016

Burning the candle at both ends!

Have I bit off more than I can chew?  That is a question I have been asking myself lately!   The Captain and I have finally opened our Etsy shop, Crows Nest Jewels. I've briefly written about my work obsession and my typical workaholic tendencies. In my professional life...
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Thursday, December 31, 2015

New year philosophies

Isn't it funny how everyone looks forward to this day so we can say goodbye to the old year that is soon to pass on and give way to the new hope of tomorrow? Maybe it is just human nature to hope what is ahead is better than what was. The grass is always greener on the other side thing . ....
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Thursday, November 12, 2015

Just One More Day

There are times my thoughts go to having one more day with the loved ones who have left my life.  It never gets to the point of pondering the question "what would I say" and how would I feel in the end.   Would I go through grief of this person leaving my life again? Would it bring...
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Monday, November 2, 2015

The Power of Awareness

"Ask how you'd live your life differently if you knew you were going to die soon, then ask yourself who those people you admire are and why you admire them, and then ask yourself what was the most fun time in your life.  The answers to these questions, when seen, heard, and felt, provide...
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Thursday, October 29, 2015

Nature's Peace

"But much of what we truly need can only be found under the naked sky, alongside tall trees, on open plains, or in the sound of running water. When you step out of your door each morning, pause for a minute and close your eyes long enough to let your senses absorb your surroundings. Listen...
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